KIBS: Counselling centre for male* victims of sexualized and domestic violence

Violence in the family or through sexualized assault does not only affect women. Boys* and young men* can also be victims of violence, and yet the fact that they are affected often goes unnoticed. The KIBS contact, information and advice centre in Munich addresses precisely this issue and offers a point of contact for male* victims of sexualized or domestic violence. With its specialized counselling, KIBS helps boys* and young men* up to the age of 27 to come to terms with their difficult experiences and find a way to lead a self-determined life.

Why is an advice center like KIBS necessary?

Although sexualized and domestic violence against boys* and men* is less talked about, studies show that they are also affected to a considerable extent. Many of those affected feel ashamed or isolated, as society often focuses on female victims. This can lead to boys* and young men* not talking about their traumatic experiences or not seeking help.

This is where KIBS comes in. The counselling centre in Munich, which is run by KINDERSCHUTZ MÜNCHEN, offers a safe environment in which affected boys* and young men* can receive support without being stigmatized. Counseling can be anonymous on request to ensure the greatest possible protection and trust for those affected.

Who can contact KIBS?

KIBS is aimed specifically at young males* up to the age of 27 who live in Bavaria and are affected by sexualized or domestic violence. This includes both direct victims and people at risk. Boys* and young men* between the ages of six and 27 who are experiencing or have experienced domestic violence can make use of the counseling services. Their relatives and caregivers are also supported, as they often play a key role in coping with traumatic experiences.

In addition, KIBS offers advice to professionals such as teachers, social workers or educators if they suspect that a boy* in their environment may have been a victim of violence.

What support does KIBS offer?

The KIBS counselling centre works with educational professionals who are specially trained in dealing with traumatized boys* and young men*. Their services include

• Individual advice and support: KIBS offers individual counseling tailored to the respective needs. The specialists help those affected to process their experiences and work with them to develop strategies to cope with what they have experienced.

• Anonymous counseling: If desired, counseling can be completely anonymous in order to offer those affected a safe space in which they can discuss their experiences confidentially.

• Support for relatives: Often parents, siblings or other close caregivers are also affected and need help to understand the experience and support the person affected. KIBS is also there for them with help and advice.

• Preventive measures: In addition to acute help, KIBS also offers prevention work. Professionals are supported in recognizing abuse or violence at an early stage and taking appropriate measures.

Violence against boys* and young men*: An often underestimated problem

In many cases, domestic and sexualized violence is not directly visible. Boys* and young men* often suffer in silence because they are ashamed or because the social expectation of being "strong" makes it difficult for them to admit their weakness. Many of those affected struggle with the psychological and physical consequences of this violence over the course of their lives, which can lead to long-term problems if left untreated.

The specialized services offered by KIBS give affected boys* and young men* the opportunity to talk about their experiences, receive support and take the first steps towards healing. This type of support is unique in Bavaria and urgently needed.

The importance of anonymous and confidential counseling services

A key aspect of the KIBS service is the option to seek advice anonymously and confidentially. Many boys* and young men* are very reluctant to talk about their experiences - whether out of fear of consequences, shame or because they blame themselves. The anonymity of counseling lowers this threshold and allows those affected to open up freely.

Support from KIBS: What can you do?

The work of KIBS is an important building block in the fight against violence against boys* and young men*. You can also help by drawing attention to the issue or supporting the work of KINDERSCHUTZ MÜNCHEN.

If you are affected yourself or know someone who needs help, please do not hesitate to contact KIBS. You can find further information on the Website of KIBS. Any form of support - be it through education or financial means - helps to ensure that boys* and young men* in need get the help they need.

Frequently asked questions

1. how can I contact KIBS?
KIBS can be contacted by telephone or e-mail. Counseling can be anonymous on request. All contact information can be found on the website of Kinderschutz München.

2. is counseling at KIBS free of charge?
Yes, counseling at KIBS is free of charge for all those affected.

3. can I contact KIBS as a specialist?
Yes, KIBS also offers counselling for professionals who suspect that a boy* may be affected by sexualized or domestic violence.

4 What happens if I contact KIBS?
The first step is a confidential conversation in which the situation is discussed. We then consider together what further steps are necessary and helpful.

5. does KIBS also advise parents?
Yes, the specialists at KIBS are also available to support and educate parents and other relatives.